Have we as fans really lost sight (corrected) of the main goal?
I personally am tired of the bashing of players and posters.
I know people who used to lurk on here and no longer do, because (as they said) it reminds them of playground games when people start arguing and attacking each other because of a difference of opinion.
Seems that some posters are more interested in rooting against a player, instead of the CUBS on the front of the jersey. How can anyone call themselves a Cubs fan while cheering and rooting for failure of a player? You don’t like a player, fine, keep it to yourself instead of flooding the board with the negative posting about him.
At the same time, why is it that when a poster on here posts an opinion that is not the reader’s exact opinion, some posters really feel the need to attack and bash the poster? Come on, we are all adults, and it is damn time we start acting as such. We should not need Al or anyone else with moderator status to have to babysit us. We should remember that we all are on the same side of the line (Cubs vs. 29 other teams).
A poster and I, just the other day did not agree on Lee, and we were able to discuss it (on the board) without it getting out of control, without any attacks, not one curse word being used, and without bashing. Guess what, in the end we found a middle ground and agreed. Just like we all should be able to more often. If you cannot come to an agreement, be adults, take the high road, and agree to disagree. There is no winning or losing an argument on BCB, so why waste the time, energy, and worse yet the space on the thread that many are trying to actually read.
If a topic is posted, and you do not agree with the idea of this post, fine. Leave the thread, and move on. If that is not enough for you, because you feel you are above the poster and want it deleted, then email Al, ask him if the thread should be allowed or not. Do not take it upon yourself to bash people about their topic. For all you know, 100 other people may like the topic and wish to discuss it, and when the negative bashing and attacking starts, it chases others who actually want to discuss in a civil manner. So put your ego in your back pocket, and move on.
A perfect example is our starting first base situation. You don’t like Hoffpauier, fine. You think Lee is done, fine. Is there is need to attack the person with a different point of view over it? State your points, and continue to cheer whoever is in Cubbie Blue on the field. None of us agree daily with Lou or each other’s thoughts on what the lineup should be, right? Does arguing and name calling make the lineup change one iota? I do encourage good debates, we can all learn from each other, but to bash a person is really not needed.
I am sure some will bash this post, and others will state their points, and I expect it. Sadly, the negative will likely come out of the woodworks telling me to STFU, etc. And those posts will do nothing more than prove my point here.
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This.
As I've told you before, I never repeat myself.
by santoswoodenlegs on May 17, 2009 10:41 PM CDT reply actions
You can get with this...
I've committed to tweeting about the Cubs for the rest of the season. (Does that sound as ridiculous as I think it does?) Anyway, if you're on Twitter, you can follow me here.
Personally I’d go with this.
Judd Sirott is responsible for EVERYONE'S injury.
Bradley watch -- out 10 games of 36
Id would go with
"Every player should be accorded the privilege of at least one season with the Chicago Cubs. That's baseball as it should be played - in God's own sunshine. And that's really living."
Tone deaf much?
Ouch. Almost as bad as Ditka.
Judd Sirott is responsible for EVERYONE'S injury.
Bradley watch -- out 10 games of 36
You may be doing this
You may be doing that.
"I'll never forget how I felt last October." ~Kosuke Fukudome
I agree with you 100%
Every time I see the bashing start, everything that goes through my mind is pretty much what you typed out. Well played sir.
by Craig in South Bend on May 17, 2009 10:49 PM CDT reply actions
My thoughts on this:
I think there’s been times when I’ve been more into a player or two on the Cubs than the team itself. There’s been years when there isn’t much to talk about as a team. That being said, the last 3 years has been all about a team and not just one player. With the exception to ROY for Soto, there hasn’t been anyone standout to get an award. Soriano might fall in that category this year if he stays healthy.
I usually don’t like debating on the forums when someone trashes a player but I also remember that this place is sometimes the only outlet for Cubs fans to vent. Being that I’m in CT, I should have realized that sooner.
I think everyone should be entitled to their opinions but sometimes it just goes too far when instead of having a conversation or debate, people start attacking each others posts. Then it gets personal.
I don’t think anything is going to change on here anytime soon.
The only thing I would add against your post is that isn’t this something more that Al should be posting?
isn’t this something more that Al should be posting?
to answer your quetion, yes and no
NO he should not need to post it, since we should not need to even be reminded of it.
YES he has posted this similar thing more than once and has felt the need to tell people in threads to cool it and stop name calling, etc.
Now, why did I post it when it may or may not be “my place to say” is simple. I really get irked with how many get treated about their opinions, and also get irked with how some people on here seem to believe it is ok to be an “internet bully” for lack of better words. I wanted to express this, and felt it would be more productive to put it seperate instead of doing so in multiple threads.
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
Ok fair enough
Bullying on here does need to stop. I can’t remember who but there was one chat last year on here where two people actually got to the point where they said they would meet at Wrigley and fight. Worse part is, this all started in a Theriot debate.
Hey, Tim, [sic] site = sight.
We get posts like this once or twice a year. It happens with a real passionate fanbase, in my opinion.
I think discussion’s great. I have two brief points you touched on, Tim.
First, Lee & Hoffpauir are a great example of statistics versus gut feelings, old versus young(er) players and discussion topics. This is what makes baseball is so brilliant; that everything can be analyzed to the Nth degree with a variety of methods – scouting reports, qualitative and quantitative data, gut emotions, etc. What I do not stand for is blatantly ignorant comments with no evidence or suggestion of fact behind them. I’m fine with using qualitative data to analyze a position battle, but when someone comments with no such reasoning behind it, I’m gonna ask or call out that person to clarify.
Second, I do think I reserve the right to NOT like a player, however. I didn’t want GameBoard this off season (still don’t), and I am very hesitant to trust Micah at all. Just because I don’t like a player on our team doesn’t mean I’m rooting any less for them to succeed or perform well. I think it’s silly to think that being a Cubs’ fan requires 100% blind love for everything the organization does and stands for.
Dan
"The riches of the game are in the thrills, not the money."
--Ernie Banks
by dtpollitt on May 17, 2009 11:01 PM CDT reply actions 1 recs
I agree
that it should be expected that if a posted says they feel someone is better, to be asked to explain why. The ide of asking why, versus telling the person that they are a complete idiot is the difference.
I also agree with liking or not liking a player. But when you see posts basically hoping for a player to fail is beyond me as a fan. Like him or not he is a Cub and should be cheered when playing. When a poster looks for the negative in a 4 for 4 day for prime example is ignorance (as you mentioned above).
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
thansk for the correction of site....fixed
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
Yup. Have a good night Tim.
"The riches of the game are in the thrills, not the money."
--Ernie Banks
Ha, you should have pretended it was an intentional pun!
All you had to say was, “Didn’t you get my fancy wordplay?” :)
by Realist Larry on May 20, 2009 12:08 AM CDT up reply actions
Also, one final note.
I don’t really see a lot of bickering and hostility around here, but it has increased with (I’m assuming) the partnership with Yahoo!, which probably pipelined a lot of new fans. As a guy that’s been on BCB for quite some time, it took me awhile to adjust to the influx of new members. Some times we have to revisit “How to Post 101”, how to act respectful, etc. There have been a larger number of trolls, fire-starters, or just cranky people than last year, I believe. Last year’s discussion was Riot’s full-time gig, this year it’s Lee & Hoffpauir. So it goes.
"The riches of the game are in the thrills, not the money."
--Ernie Banks
There's nothing wrong with disagreement and debate...
…as long as it’s civil. Bottom line is, this is a baseball blog — it’s a place for baseball fans to talk baseball with other baseball fans. It’s also a convenient place for fans to vent their frustrations when things don’t go well. In a setting like that, there’s bound to be disagreement sooner or later.
Let’s not forget, a good number of fanposts on here invite debate and disagreement. The problems arise when folks start mocking other people’s opinions or feel they’re the “BCB Police” and criticize fanposts for not being worthy of being a fanpost.
My suggestion to those who have issues with people’s posts or comments is to email Al and ask him to look into it. Taking the initiative to police this site is ridiculous and only provokes retaliation from other members.
All in all, I think this blog is a great place. Sure, it has it’s moments where all hell breaks loose, but most of the time, I couldn’t ask for more. IMO, there’s ABSOLUTELY nothing that needs fixing.
"I always tell the truth -- Even when I lie"
OT: Anyone in So. Cal feel the earthquake?
I can’t believe it was only a 4.7 — It felt a hell of a lot stronger!
"I always tell the truth -- Even when I lie"
I felt it
It didn’t feel like a lot to me, my bed just shook for a couple of seconds. Where do you live?
St. Louis Cardinals... defying win expectancy since 2008
by vivaelpujols on May 18, 2009 12:17 AM CDT up reply actions
South Orange County
I didn’t mean to make it sound like things were falling all over the place or anything, but the fact I heard my house creaking and saw my tv vibrating made me think it was stronger. Gotta admit, it tripped me out a bit!
"I always tell the truth -- Even when I lie"
I just moved to SoCal from Chicago a couple of months ago...
I was at work this evening, (in Irvine), and I all of a sudden felt the floor shaking, looked at the computer monitor; it was shaking, and placed my hands on the desk. The desk was shaking as well. I work overnights, so at first I thought I was imagining things, due to long hours, and lack of sleep. Then I realized I had just experienced my first earthquake… Good to know I wasn’t imagining things. 4.7? I wouldn’t know if it felt stronger or not, but I do know it was slightly unsettling. Guess I better get used to it though. As much as I miss Chicago, Wrigley, and my boys in blue pinstripes… I’m not going back unless I have to.
I'm a truth teller, I'm a risk taker, I'm like Johnny Cash - I walk the line...
by Jimmyeatworld on May 18, 2009 5:41 AM CDT up reply actions
I'm moving to Huntington Beach from Chicago soon
and trading earthquakes for winter is a good trade every time. I’ll miss Wrigley Field and Chicago food though.
I miss the food, and venues
but the weather and cost of living not so much
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
I'd take earthquakes over Chicago winters too, but...
…earthquakes are scary — you never know when they’re coming, you never know how long they’ll last, and you never know when “THE BIG ONE” will hit. I’ll never forget the Northridge quake of 1994 — that was a 6.7 — over 1000 times stronger than last night’s — and it shook for about a full minute.
You’ll love Huntington — all kinds of things to do — Only 30 minutes to Dodger Stadium and 20 minutes to Angel Stadium.
"I always tell the truth -- Even when I lie"
30 minutes from HB to Chavez Ravine?
Via helicopter?
"I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day." ~ Frank Sinatra
The far reaches of the parking lots
are more than a half hour from Dodger Stadium.
If you really really love being in your car, have no interest in beautiful urban public space or shared civic pride and have always wanted to live in an endless sprawling suburb of 15 million people, SoCal is just what the doctor ordered.
Good sushi though.
good examples with lee/hoffpauir
I think some posters here take anything neg you say as examples of hating the player. Say something neg about Lee and all of a sudden you hate the guy. Now there may be some posters that want Lee to be DFA’d or benched. I don’t get that and I would ignore the poster for even thinking that.
But from my perspective, Micah needs more playing time. Maybe a couple of times a week would be nice. Does that make me a DLee hater? I don’t think so. He is a great defensive first baseman and can still hit major league pitching.
And maybe saying something like Lee needs to spend more time on the bench would actually help the team. Get Micah some playing time. And keep Lee more fresh during the season also.
Also maybe some of the sunshine fans need to be sympathetic of the angst that some of the neg posters are going through. As long as it doesn’t get into the realm of actually rooting for the players to fail. I have been in many threads recently and I can only recall one fan rooting for a player to fail.
Good post Tim, grade A for the discourse. It would be nice to discuss the Cubs civilly without some of the language and name calling sometimes.
Say this much for big league baseball - it is beyond question the greatest conversation piece ever invented in America. ~Bruce Catton
I'm fairly new here, but I applaud this post
I lurked around a fair bit last year and don’t recall seeing so much negativity and flaming. Maybe I was just lucky then or have been unlucky this season in terms of the threads and posts I’ve happened to read.
The problem that I keep noticing is that some people seem determined to read other people’s statements as being more extreme than they actually are. Say, for example, someone posts a comment about Derrek Lee. If the comment is even slightly negative, then certain people will respond as if the poster has suggested that D-Lee is the worst player in MLB history and should be taken out behind the bleachers as soon as possible and shot. If the comment is slightly positive or optimistic, then someone will respond as if the poster is a kool-aid-drinking moron completely out of touch with reality. In fact, the best way to sum it up may be that these individuals seem to want to view each of us as an extreme caricature of a Cub fan. You open your mouth on here to contribute something and they’re going to listen exactly long enough to determine whether you are a “Ledge Jumper” or a “Kool-Aid-Drinker” (no other options) — and then they will treat you accordingly, with a pointless argument generally ensuing. It’s not pretty in my opinion.
I haven’t really been personally subjected to this sort of treatment, but probably only because I keep my mouth shut a lot of the time. It isn’t fun to see though even if you’re not the target, and I’ve left at least 2 or 3 game threads this year because of this kind of unpleasantness (one of those was the one when “aramis” got banned).
Anything else I would add would really just be retreading points that Al has already made pretty clear in the BCB Community Guidelines. Might be a good idea if everyone just had a look at those —even if you’ve been here a long time, could be time to refresh your memory…
by CubFanInCanberra (9387milesfromWrigley) on May 18, 2009 12:49 AM CDT reply actions
I don't have a problem with this post...
… in fact, the points are made quite well. (CubFanInCanberra also brings up some useful points.)
Really, the bottom line is this: this site is set up so Cubs fans can have discussions about issues involving the team and baseball. Whenever that happens, people are bound to disagree.
And that’s fine. All I ask is that you keep the profanity out and treat others with respect. Disagree, even vehemently, but try to back up your disagreements with facts and don’t attack the poster.
Thanks.
"You can observe a lot just by watching." ~ Yogi Berra
This site isn't so bad.
It’s considerably better than the Cubs MLB board. I don’t even bother with that anymore because I never learn anything from it, and it’s so heavy on the name calling and player bashing.
In short, don't get personal.
We can discuss and disagree; just concentrate on the message instead of the messenger.
Very good post, IMO.
Tim, nice post
You and I had a similar mini-discussion in another thread. A little civility can go a long way.
I don’t always agree with your opinions, but I’ve never had an issue with the way that you present them, or the way that you respond to opinions that you disagree with.
Facts are meaningless. You could use facts to prove anything that's even remotely true! --Homer J. Simpson
by Shanghai Badger on May 18, 2009 9:41 AM CDT reply actions
disagreeing doesnt have to be a declaration of war
You and I have had a few disagreements, and as you said, we never have had a problem discussing them without feeling as if we are trying to “one up” or “attack” the other.
I enjoy a good debate as much if not more than the next guy (hell, why else would i have 11 years in bill collections), and I truly love to read a good debate, since both sides likely have points which can help educate me (or others) on their stance. It does not mean either is right or wrong, does not mean I will change my stance, but it can open my eyes to something I didnt see or take into consideration.
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
Psychoanalyzing fandom
I’m in my fifties, but I always tell people I was born a Cub fan. My mom also grew up a Cub fan and she was always a polite, never criticize, supportive but low-key type of fan.
My father didn’t become a Cub fan until his twenties, and while he was an avid fan, he always "rooted" by ripping and tearing down the team. Any strikeout meant that player should be sent to minors, whenever a reliever came in it was either too early to take out the starter, or the manager waited too long. You get the idea. I always wondered why he watched so many games, until I realized that was just the way he chose to be a fan. It allowed him to outwardly disconnect with the team, while inwardly he was very much emotionally attached.
So growing up I would always be the opposite of my Dad. The more he rooted against, the more I rooted for. Also, as a kid, I grew up on a block that had more Sox fans than Cub fans, I had to be overly defensive (on supporting the Cubs) to survive in the neighborhood debates. All this made me more of an over the top type of fan, that made it hard to openly criticize or for example boo a player. Now, that doesn’t mean I don’t complain or criticize the team or players, I just do it with other "trusted" fans.
No big concluding point here, I just think it the spectrum is pretty wide for how someone might choose to support their team. As others have already said, debate and challenges can be interesting and entertaining, but the snippy lecturing stuff and in a very few cases open attacks are just tedious.
This really struck a chord with me
I’m 40 and inherited my life-long Cubs obsession from my dad. He has always been one of those very pessimistic Cubs fans, which I can sympathize with to some degree since he’s been suffering longer than I have — but it probably did influence me into becoming a much more positive, optimistic type of Cubs fan.
by CubFanInCanberra (9387milesfromWrigley) on May 18, 2009 11:00 PM CDT up reply actions
Only been here since Spring Training
Thanks for this post Tim, I was starting to wonder if these kind of name calling and bashing of posters was the norm. After that Zambrano bunting argument was exploding in 3 different posts and after about the first 50 replies they werent even arguing about Z anymore, that is not a fun argument at all. I grew up with very argumentative friends. So I love arguing, but arguing with facts and ideas, not I know more so therefor I am right.
"Every player should be accorded the privilege of at least one season with the Chicago Cubs. That's baseball as it should be played - in God's own sunshine. And that's really living."
You should have seen the
“Z” comments when he busted Barrett in the nose!
by San Diego Smooth Jazz Man on May 18, 2009 10:53 PM CDT up reply actions
BCB Posting Behavior
Well, there are times discussions detoriorate into personal attacks between posters, but BCB is a lot better about that than other Cubs blogs. Considering how many people read and post on BCB, I’m amazed the behavior is as good as it is here.
"The big possums walk late." - Harry Caray
Yay civility!
And, as a side note, for those of you looking for the bashing type of sites, there are plenty of those out there. I’m sure the, ahm, individuals… at many of those sites would more than welcome your, ah, insightful critical comments.
Perhaps we should run a poll and vote for the least civil Cubs board? I can guess who I’d vote for….
Judd Sirott is responsible for EVERYONE'S injury.
Bradley watch -- out 10 games of 36
Sorry but it sounds like you're talking out of both sides of your mouth here
You say that differences of opinion are fine as long as they’re civil (I agree with you completely about the "civil’ part, btw) but then you also say that people should keep negative opinions to themselves and not post them.
Look, I understand that constant negativity can be tiresome and a drag, etc. but I also understand that some people are more comfortable with that attitude. It’s like it’s part of their “fan personality”.
At the same time I don’t see a problem with occasionally questioning or criticizing. As much as I love the Cubs and want them to do well (and sleep better when they do), I don’t have the ability to turn my brain off when they strand runners on third with less than two outs or blow what should be comfortable ninth inning leads.
Pointing things like that out and wanting to talk about them with fellow fans doesn’t mean I’m “on the ledge”. To me, it’s just part of being a fan.
by bluekoolaide on May 18, 2009 12:00 PM CDT reply actions 1 recs
its not the negative opinions
but how they are posted. The “he sucks” “you are an idiot” type of posts are not needed. Saying that you believe that blah blah without getting personal is great.
Anyone can get online and post "HE SUCKS, YOU ARE AN IDIOT " but what good does that post do for anyone or anything?
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
Point taken
Those type of posts ARE moronic. Unfortunately, to a certain extent, they seem to go with the territory. I don’t think anything is going to stop that sort of thing so maybe the best recourse is to just not take the bait. Most people usually get the message and lose interest when they’re ignored.
by bluekoolaide on May 18, 2009 12:16 PM CDT up reply actions
Sadly, Tim, you're probably preaching to the converted here.
Because those who post the “HE SUCKS, YOU’RE AN IDIOT” comments aren’t any more likely to bother reading the eight paragraphs you’ve written above than they are to read Al’s constant pleas to follow the community guidelines. I guess it doesn’t hurt to try, though.
I've committed to tweeting about the Cubs for the rest of the season. (Does that sound as ridiculous as I think it does?) Anyway, if you're on Twitter, you can follow me here.
I had thought that as well
that those who tend to be guilty of this more often than not are not here discussing it.
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
By and large, there have been some great debates on BCB
but there are too many juvenile-type posts that really don’t do much to add to the body of knowledge here.
I try my best not to instigate an argument. But if there are a plethora of “he sucks”-type posts, I believe in fighting fire with fire.
I suppose I could just not post here anymore when I see stuff like that, but I like this site, and I love this team, too much to do so.
by Not Bruce Froemming on May 18, 2009 2:55 PM CDT up reply actions
I think what is as bad
is when you get the one, or two, or three individuals who before the game, during, and even after do nothing but bag on the team, players, etc. like they’re waiting for them to do the smallest thing that’s wrong so they can fullfill their little self fullfilling prophecy they’ve created. Then they feel their ranting has been validated, which seems to turn into the “HE SUCKS, YOU’RE AN IDIOT” stuff. I haven’t noticed it as much lately, but it was annoying for a bit.
by Craig in South Bend on May 18, 2009 2:59 PM CDT up reply actions
It's not nearly as bad when they're winning
but even then, it’s there.
If they fall behind tomorrow night, I’m sure you’ll see it again.
by Not Bruce Froemming on May 18, 2009 3:13 PM CDT up reply actions
and a lot of it
will be from those who
1. ignored the opportunity to discuss it in thie thread
2. some who only come on BCB during games, then leave it until the next one
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
And a lot of times
they only bother posting when the team is losing or trailing.
by Not Bruce Froemming on May 18, 2009 3:30 PM CDT up reply actions
That's the
problem I have. Why can’t they be in the threads when the team is winning? I don’t want to hear that they need to vent. If they can cheer by themselves they can vent by themselves too.
pr be involved in threads
on off days. it would help them and us IMO since we could get more used to each others sense of humor, etc.
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
That's a good point
I was just starting to figure out Clutche, but he seems to have gone. Or taken a vacation.
Facts are meaningless. You could use facts to prove anything that's even remotely true! --Homer J. Simpson
by Shanghai Badger on May 19, 2009 8:50 AM CDT up reply actions
Some of us can't always be at a computer and/or watch...
The best defense is a good offense.....Lou Pinella...still hasn't managed the Cubs to a post season win. D. Lee still doesn't have a post seasson RBI for Cubs...ditto for Soriano
I think this is just because you want Hoffpauir to start full time...
if this was still new to me, i wouldn't understand
I will say
that I have thought about this issue some. Why am I not ready to give Hoffpauir a lot of time playing at first at Lee’s expense, yet I’m really down with the idea of dumping Miles for Scales?
Then I realize — it’s because I want the best team out there. :D
"I don’t really play baseball, I feel it." -- Milton Bradley
by drewishdrewid on May 18, 2009 3:56 PM CDT up reply actions
I couldn't help myself.
This post was so kind and happy that I knew I wasn’t in a game thread.
I also think Tim and I have been disagreeing, amicably, about most things these days.
if this was still new to me, i wouldn't understand
what? NO you lie
**sarcasm
baseball is a game of outs......pop out, ground out, line out, pitch out, strike out, fly out, and Fox and Bud's favorite black out
Negative opinions about the TEAM and PLAYERS are OK. About the POSTERS are not.
I think this is a point being made that’s being missed. It’s not about Lee vs. Hoffpaur, but about realizing it’s all opinions and others can disagree.
Someone is not ‘stupid’, and the million other things thrown around, because they disagree with you about a baseball team.
I don’t care if someone posts “Lee sucks”, if that’s the topic. He can think that. But to tell another poster HE sucks because he (or she) disagrees about DLee is silly.
I go on because I started posting here a while back, and was taken aback by the negativity of some here agaiinst any opinion -No, against the Bearer of any opinion- different than their own.
I commented on it and there was a small discussion in that thread.
by Realist Larry on May 20, 2009 12:15 AM CDT up reply actions
Once again though, certain people completely misrepresent...
their own actions. There are a lot of so called “true fans” (several who have posted on this very thread) who don’t confine themselves to just confronting the trolls who only show up to post “he sucks” type comments but are quick to attack anybody who mentions anything negative about the Cubs (even if it’s done in a civil manner).
It absolutely cracks me up that these people are so completely in denial about the negative roles they play in all of this.
by bluekoolaide on May 19, 2009 10:05 AM CDT reply actions 1 recs
perception
is everything.
"I don’t really play baseball, I feel it." -- Milton Bradley
by drewishdrewid on May 19, 2009 10:08 AM CDT up reply actions
Agree fully.
"I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day." ~ Frank Sinatra
civility
I am pretty much brand new to this board, but not to fans boards. I have spent the last couple of months on the Yahoo Cub board and I’ll tell you what, the inmates run the asylum. It is worse than a junior high locker room with the language, the who’s bigger back and forth and the trolls. I am hoping this is place where Cubs baseball can be discussed civilly and intelligently. I have found the Bears board here to be pretty much that way, so I thought I would give the Cubs board a go.
Despite this conversation and some negativity, it is Light-years beyond those boards!
No comparison.
i only catch some comments on yahoo and other boards in passing-what a joke.
by Realist Larry on May 20, 2009 12:17 AM CDT up reply actions
Well, I have found...
..the only way I win an argument is if I put down someone’s family and/or curse them out mercilessly.
"It's hard to win 97 games, it's hard to win the division. Our attitude is if you get in every year, you get in most of the time, sooner or later you are going to knock that door down." -- Jim Hendry

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